Needless to say, the wedding day is often a stressful day for the bride. It is not only the culmination of all the preparation and planning but there is also some pressure to make it as perfect as she has imagined.
But with everything that has to be done on the day itself to make it perfect, it makes me wonder how brides can keep their calm on this very special day especially when they cannot afford to have anything go wrong.
I have done some research and here are some of the things that can help you keep your wedding as stress-free as possible:
Assign a special person who will act as the main person to go to should any member of the bridal entourage have any questions. Make sure that everyone knows who this person is. He/she could be a friend, a family member or even a member of the bridal entourage.
Whoever you choose should be able to make the decisions on your behalf. As he/she is going to be responsible for your big day, make sure that he/she knows what your idea of a perfect wedding day is so he/she can make the decisions accordingly.
It would also be to your advantage to delegate tasks that need to be done during the big day. When doing so, it would be advantageous for you to give no more than two tasks to each person. Keep in mind that this is a busy day for them too and giving them more than two tasks may cause them to “forget” something. You do not want this to happen on your wedding day. What you would like to do is to delegate to more than one person.
You can also assign someone to help you get all the photos you want during that day. His/her job would be to make sure that the photos you want will happen. Give him a list of all the kind of photos you want as well as a list of the people you want on it. For this task, it would be advisable for you to pick someone who knows most of the guests, has a loud voice and who can command people.
Finally, you need to give the members of your bridal entourage a schedule. At the rehearsal dinner, give them a basic outline or schedule for the wedding day. This will help everyone to feel they are in the loop on everything that will happen during the wedding day and they will help you run your big day smoothly.
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