More and more people are now turning to online dating sites in order to find their special someone. In fact, it is becoming quite common to hear of couples who have met online. Some of them move on to having an exclusive boyfriend-girlfriend relationship while some have even been lucky enough to marry the person they have met online.
If you are one of the many people who are thinking of joining the online dating world, here are some information which can help you make the jump.
There are currently five types of online dating services:
1. General Online Dating Services
If you join a general online dating service, you will be allowed to access the members’ database after you have signed in with the site. Your registration with them will give you the ability to view all the profiles that have been created on the site and while they do offer optional quizzes and guides to help you narrow down what you are looking for, you are always welcome to expand your search as you wish. An example of this would be match.com.
Personally, of all the kinds of online dating services that I have tried, match.com remains to be a favorite as I have had more success with them than with any other services. In addition, I also have a match.com coupon for 2010 which makes my online search for my special someone extremely cost-effective.
2. Relationship Services
If you are serious about meeting “the one,” a relationship type of service may be best for you. This is a service that caters to those who would like to settle down soon and have marriage plans in mind. These sites will make you answer an in-depth personality profile which could take anywhere from forty to ninety minutes. They will assess your answers and will calculate the type of person you are most compatible with. From there, they will give a list of all the people who they think will be the most compatible with you.
Now, admittedly, I am someone who do not like to limit my choices. I would rather do my own trial and error and decide for myself whether he is “the one” than to let a compatibility test decide for me. Let’s face it, there are some relationships that work really well even when no logic nor any amount of compatibility tests can explain it.
3. Niche Online Dating Services
If you would like to meet people who enjoys the same activities as you do, the niche online dating services is a good place to start. They aim to match people who share the same interests or beliefs. They bring together people who share the same passion. There are numerous sites offering this service and they vary from pet lovers to Star Trek fans.
4. Merging Online Dating Services
This is a new type of online dating service which are slowly gaining ground. How this works is that you create an online profile on their site and then you print out cards which indicate your handle as well as the site URL. The idea is for you to give this cards out to people who you meet offline. It ties together your online and offline dating life into one unique experience.
I have not encountered someone who has gone through this type of service. If you are one who likes to keep your online and offline life separate, then this could be an issue for you.
5. Social Networking Sites
The social networking sites are also great for meeting new people. The idea is to build up your group of friends and in the process, find someone to date. This could be one of your friends or a friend’s friend.
While this is a good way of meeting people casually, this requires more work than just registering on a general online dating site. For one, you have to figure out whether a friend you are interested in is actually looking for someone. For all you know, he/she could already be in a relationship.






Great definition of the different kinds of dating sites.
Social networking sites were actually the very first dating sites I believe, and as you stated, can still be a utility to find dates. I’ve been hit on a few times by friends of friends on MySpace or Facebook.
WooMe is a video dating site that is also kind of a social networking site, whereas speeddate.com is more of a purist online dating site.
OKCupid is one of my favorites. They built the site off of online quizzes that aren’t as serious in nature as the ones that eharmony has people fill out.
Then there’s more modern video social networking sites that could be great for dating since it’s so easy to meet new people on them. Sites like ShufflePeople or Chatroulette.
I write a lot about online dating and video chat in particular – I think that most people would agree with you, that they don’t want to be limited in their choices. That’s what online dating is good for, limitless choices.
Many people turn to dating online after they have lost a spouse either through divorce or death. Or, when the end of the year approaches, many singles have that desire to spend the holidays with someone special.