On my previous post, I have given you five signs that “he’s not the one.” Here are five more signs -
6. You can’t imagine him to be the father of your children.
Something about him is making you think twice about having children together. Maybe you are wondering whether he would make a great parent. Or if he is financially responsible. Or maybe you are wondering if he would make a great partner for rearing children. If you have doubts on any of these, then, he’s probably not the one.
7. Your basic values and long-term goals are incompatible.
Check your basic values and long term goals against his and find out if they are compatible. For example, if he lives in the country and you can never leave the city, ask yourself if you are both willing to compromise. If neither one is willing, then he may not be the right one for you.
8. You don’t respect each other.
Respect for one another is important in any relationship. Without respect, the relationship will not grow and deepen. If one of you continually puts down the other in front of your friends, embarrasses you to no end, or complains continually about you to your friends, family and relatives, you are not meant for each other in the long term. Keep in mind that a relationship without respect will not be able to sustain itself.
9. One of you is struggling with an addiction.
If one of you is struggling with addiction, do not wrongly assume that you will be able to change your partner. Keep in mind that an addiction can only be overcome when the person wishes for it to change. He must do it on his own terms. Any form of addiction whether alcohol, gambling or cocaine will eventually put a heavy strain into the relationship.
10. You have this strange feeling about him.
For reasons you cannot explain, there is just something about him that does not feel right. If you do have this feeling, do not ignore it. Trust your gut and take the time to figure out what it is that does not feel right. Do not ignore the warning signs. Figure it out and take it slow.
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