Dear Rachael,
Great blog! You have nice, straight-to-the-point articles and they are very helpful.
I have to admit that I am at a loss when it comes to girls. There’s this girl I like. We talk a lot and spend time together but I am having difficulty trying to figure out whether she likes me. I would like to let her know how I feel but I am unsure as to what she thinks of me. Do you have any tips for me? What are the signs that I should be on the lookout for? How can I tell that she likes me?
Thanks for your help!
Lawrence
Figuring out whether a girl likes you can both be confusing and overwhelming. What you need to do is to tune in to how she acts when she is around you. Pay attention to the things she does and says. Here are some of the things that you need to watch out for:
1. Identify her assertiveness level
As you have mentioned that you spend time with her, you would be at an advantage of identifying her assertiveness level. Observe her and determine if she is shy or assertive. Assertive girls will have no issues with letting you know they like you. They would invite you out, call you, or will even bluntly tell you that they like you.
Shy girls, on the other hand, will be hesitant to let you know that they like you. Instead, what they will do is to give subtle hints that they are interested. They will arrange to constantly bump into you and will want to always be seen by you. They will also pay close attention to what they’re wearing and how they look if they know you are around.
2. She touches you
When a girl finds a guy interesting, she tends to touch him when they are together. It could be a playful pat on the arm while talking, touching your head or even messing up your hair. If a girl is touchy when you are together, it could be a sign that she’s interested.
3. She asks questions
A girl who is interested in you will want to know more about you. She will ask you questions in order to get to know you better. She will want to know what you are doing this weekend, what your hobbies are and what interests you. The questions will vary from trivial to personal all with the goal of knowing you better.
4. She introduces you to her friends
A girl who likes you will take the time to introduce you to her friends. She would like her friends to get to know you and she will often ask them for their opinion of you. As is often the case, her friends’ approval will make a difference.
5. She pays attention to how she looks
When you are around, she dresses a bit differently. She pays special attention to her hair, her clothes and her makeup. She is doing this in the hopes that you will notice her.
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