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April 25, 2011 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment


Online dating is something everyone’s heard about. Millions of people are trying it and having great success with it. One online dating service that has had great success nationwide is Match.com. Nows your chance to learn more about Match.com and also get your very own Match.com Coupons directly from us!

About Match.com

Launched on the Web in April of 1995, Match.com helped pioneer the online dating industry and now services 24 countries and territories and hosts Web sites in 15 different languages. They create romantic opportunities so singles are more likely to find someone special. Over the years, they’ve learned more and more about what people want—and the tools they need to help take the lottery out of love. With more ways than ever to bring singles together, they’ve come a long way since 1995.

What They Do

Their mission is simple: to help singles find the kind of relationship they’re looking for. And they’re pretty good at it. Every month, we hear from hundreds of success couples from all over the world—sharing love stories, sending invitations to weddings and announcing the births of new babies. It’s no wonder everyone knows someone who’s found love on Match.com!

How It Works

At Match.com, they give singles the opportunity to express themselves through various free writing sections. Profiles may include up to 26 photos, as well as selected preferences regarding the person they’re searching for. With the click of a mouse, members can instantly see photos and read about potential matches in their area. Match.com also understands the importance of privacy and integrity. All communication between members on Match.com happens through an “anonymous” email network. The names and contact information of all their members are kept confidential until the member personally decides to share the information with a potential match. And to help ensure the integrity of their community, every profile and photo is screened by their Customer Care team for appropriateness before it’s posted to the site.

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While love is universal, the way people meet, court and develop relationships is far from it. That’s why Match.com offers different approaches and features unique to different cultures.

Match.com powers online dating for Yahoo! Personals in Australia and the US, as well as MSN across Asia, Australia, Latin America and the US. Additionally, Match.com powers online dating for Terra throughout Latin America.

Headquartered in Dallas, TX, Match.com is an operating business of IAC/InterActiveCorp (Nasdaq: IACI), and has international offices in Beijing and Tokyo.

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Looking for someone who loves sushi, the Mets, or runs marathons? Match.com provides a variety of powerful search tools to help you find people based on their interests, background, age, location, and more—and it’s free to search the largest, most diverse community of singles anywhere.

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Every day Match.com gives you personalized matches. From their Daily5 to Singled Out, they’ve taken what they’ve learned over 15 years as the online dating leader and put it to work matching you every single day

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5 Signs He’s Not the One

November 23, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

Is there still some warm and mushy feelings every time he looks at you? Are you still getting butterflies in your stomach when the phone rings? These little tell tale signs let you know that your still in head over heels with someone. If your finding yourself unsure of your feelings  then maybe he is not the one? How can you be sure if he isn’t? There are some signs you can look for  that can  help you with your decision on where your relationship is.

  1. Would he rather be somewhere else? If you find that he would rather be hanging out with his friends  instead of  with you more often than not you might know earlier on that he is not the one. There is no time limit on wanting to spend time with each other. It should be a want all the time, and not grow old. If you find that he doesn’t  have the same instinct.
  2. Is he constantly living in the past? If you find that he talks about his past girlfriend more than he talks about his current life you may begin to notice that something is a miss. he should want to be in conversation with you , not “at you”. Reliving his past relationship tells you he isn’t involved in the present one.
  3. The chemistry is purely physical. A good indicator things won’t progress successfully is if outside the bedroom you can’t hold the attraction. If you click outside the bedroom then you will know that you have a chance at meaningful relationship. It’s great to have a spark in the bedroom to keep the excitement and attractive alive, but you need more than that to sustain a relationship. Longevity in a relationship is based on more than one ingreidient .
  4. Is it only him in the relationship? If he only worries about himself, and never takes you into consideration this can be a great way to figure out who he really is.
  5. Are you on the same page? If he doesn’t agree on your outlook of life, and constantly puts down your likes, he is not the one. Sharing your life with someone should mean even if you don’t necessarily agree, at least you will support each other. If that fails, surely he is not the one.

Finding out if he is date worthy or dump worthy will only take a few dates to notice where you heading. Finding out if he is the one won’t be instantaneous, it will take time, effort and emotion. Surely you will know if the guy your dating is the one, but if you have doubts in your mind, play closer attention to the signs that you see.

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When to Take Relationship Advice

November 18, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

According to the social media, your relationship is probably in dire need of help.  If you listened to every Twitter update, Facebook post and blog update you would be in constant need of relationship rescue. The real question is when does your relationship need advice?  If your in a relationship for the first time  you probably feel that your every move is subject to speculation. If your a veteran of a relationship you probably don’t pay attention to outside influences. There is a happy medium some where in the middle. But just when is it that you take relationship advice?

The Rut

When your relationship starts to get into a rut it can be time to seek out some advice. Not knowing how to add some spice into relationship can be good cause for some suggestion. It never hurts to ask around for some ideas. A rut in a relationship can make for some tense and awkward alone time so trying to find a way to alleviate that can certainly help. Every relationship has whats called a “dry spell”. Wanting to find someone to help with this is a natural reaction, so seek some advice.

The Commitment

More than once in a relationship the topic of commitment has come into question. Needing to ask someone if your relationship has commitment issues, or how  to deal with it if it does is a well deserved reason for some advice. Commitment issues can be a very touchy subject in some relationships and needing to get a second opinion on the situation is justifiable. Sometimes, no matter the length of the relationship, it still can help to have some advice.

The Break Up

While it is a very personal decision to break up with the person your in a relationship with, it may help to talk it over with someone first. It may be that you are finding yourself wondering should you or shouldn’t you? Are perhaps seeing things unclearly, or maybe you have misread a situation which has lead to a bad reaction. Before you go ahead and break up with someone it may be better if you talk it over with someone else. This is an appropriate time to ask someone for their advice on the situation as you may need the moral support.

Asking for advice on your relationship can happen whatever the circumstance. The idea is not to constantly keep your relationship in the gossip circuit, but to ask for advice from a trusted source to help when you need it. Asking anyone for advice is probably not the best way to keep the respect in your relationship either. Try talking to someone who has some experience in the situation or even someone that you trust. As long as you are comfortable discussing your relationship it should make the process easier when asking for advice. Also make sure your partner is aware that your are seeking advice, otherwise this may be cause for a whole new problem.

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Why Communication Is Important in a Relationship

November 17, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

I married my best friend. Have you every heard someone say that? It can be very true. Being in any relationship should have that element to it. Knowing your with someone you share many things with, but the act of friendship is possibly the most important. Why? Because  it breeds friendship which is the best foundation for communication in a relationship. How can you establish trust which is a key ingredient in a relationship if you don’t first have the proper communication? There are few way to view why communication is so important.

Is it a Fling or Just a Thing?

Getting longevity out of a relationship can only depend on what you put into it. Knowing that you are trying to establish a foundation of trust and respect will make communication easier in your relationship. So many of us wonder why our relationships aren’t as strong as they should be. If you are in a relationship for the long haul you put all the effort you have into making it able to sustain. Effective and constant communication is the key. If your in a relationship for a short period of time, likely you won’t find it necessary to put so much effort in.

Are You Silent, or Stubborn?

When your in a relationship it is natural to argue. It can be also a natural reaction to want to walk away and not discuss what your feeling. While taking step back might be wise from a temper stand point, bottling up your feelings is harmful to your relationship. Inevitably your feelings will mount, causing frustration, aggravation and resentment. These feelings will be extremely difficult to deal with because they will be an accumulation of prior issues.

Being stubborn by withholding communication will get you no where. It certainly will only harm your relationship. Taking a moment to compose yourself into a calmer state is a great idea. Open communication with a cool head will help solve any issues at hand. Being able to discuss an issue with tensions contained will allow the room for progress. This is an important step in your relationship. Being able to freely speak with emotion can bring your bond closer together.

Are You In?

Making yourself available for those discussion that can be uncomfortable or awkward is all part of being in a relationship. No one wants to be uncomfortable, but some things need to be discussed even if they make you feel bad. There will always be tense situations that have to be dealt with, running away isn’t an option unless you are walking away from your relationship also.  Making sure you are there to listen, support and accept accountability when the time calls for it, is a very important part of your relationship. Otherwise there is no communication, and your relationship becomes a one sided venture.

Asking the hard questions, and demanding more of yourself might be called for if open communication is outside your comfort zone. In the end , your relationship will either be better for it, or it will end. At the very least you can take comfort in knowing what every happens will be based on your decisions, and not your inability to communicate.

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The Art of Flirting

November 16, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

That subtle glance, suggestive gesture or lightest touch can mean so many different things to different people. How you convey yourself when your trying to get someones attention will suggest how well you are doing by their response. If your in a crowded room and see someone who’s attention you would like, how will you go about it?

Being overly “generous” with your gestures can be a turn off. Overly obnoxious forms of touching can be deemed inappropriate and will send the wrong message. Showing your interest in someone takes an art. What can you do to make your intentions known without sending the wrong message.

Use Flattery

When talking to someone in general conversation, try to compliment them. Complimenting someone is such a way that says your interested can be difficult. Remaining genuine its the key when using flattery. Place Your flattery on the topics of interest. Figure out what would make the most sense to compliment that person on , and try to obtain mutual flattery. This can be more rewarding than you think. Creating the chemistry is by no means accidental. By doing this you will keep the conversation going enticing the other person.

Use Your Energy

Saying hello with some energy behind can be very attractive. A beaming smile and spring in your step is an addictive quality in a person. It will make others feel like they always want to be with you. This is flirting at it’s finest. A subtle way to get someones attention is to always leave an impression. A good impression that is. If you come across someone who ultimately makes you light up and provides a smile, there is an underlying message.

Just A Touch

Never over exaggerate touching someone. You never want to feel like your mauling someone in order to get their attention. A light touch can speak volumes when done correctly. If you engage someone you are interested in, conversations can become deep, thoughtful or even playful. Reaching out with a playful swat, or perhaps a light touch during an emotional moment can send the right signals. Knowing when to insert these touches can let someone know your interested.

Eye Contact

Making intense eye contact can send the message  evenacross a room that you are interested. One minute to longand you have crossed the line right to creepy. Remaining cool during this time is essential. Saying anything with eye contact is a perfected action. Baiting someone over takes the perfectly placed wink but also a smile in those eyes.

Never underestimate the power you have to tempt someone. Being able to draw someone in can take several methods of flirting.  The key is your own confidence. Too much is regarded as cocky, too little is unappealing. Don’t try to flirt when you feel inadequate. Confidence radiates from within and can be one of the sexiest thing about you. Use this when your flirting and you will find success. People can help but be drawn to someone who is glowing. It may takes some practise but the best advise has always been; less is more.

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Conversation Ideas for First Dates

November 15, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

It never fails. Sweaty palms, your brain freezes and you clam up. Why do first date conversations have to invoke so much anxiety? If you think about it to much you can consider that this is your first chance to make a first impression on someone. It is also going to set the tone for the entire date, which will then determine if there is a second date. That leads to whether or not you could potentially have  meaningful relationship with this person.

Okay, analyzing this only makes it worse, no wonder when this all rests on your shoulders you have set yourself up for failure. Take a deep breathe, there are a few ways to prepare yourself. With a couple of conversation starters you can ease your anxiety and hopefully  dry up those sweaty palms.

Where Have You Been?

No, this is not to be used as a pick up line. Lots of people today have done even a little traveling. Ask thought provokeing questions on the travel that has already done. Where, when, why? Leave out the question of with whom, as it can only lead to an answer that may be to awkward to answer. Save you and your date the embarrassment and perhaps stick to the questions that will blossom a conversation.

Reality Anyone?

With pop culture today, reality TV is big in the every “buzz”. This allows a number of conversation to open the floor. Even if you love it or hate it, it still provides the ability to have a great debate for some conversation with substance. If you can hold the other persons interest, this can be a lengthy conservation that will show case your knowledge and ability to “discuss” without arguing. This is a very important attribute.

Entertain Me

Trying to have a conversation with someone shouldn’t feel forced. Talking about your interests should include things like music, movies, play or theater if your interested. Express what your likes and dislikes are. Having an opinion isn’t wrong, it’s how you express it. If you can convey your opinion in a manner that is both respectful and articulate you should have no problems hold ing the conversation. Being respectful of someone else opinion is a great way to show your opened minded, but at the same time still able to maintain your own. There is something to be said for someone who is able to be true to their own beliefs and opinions.

Don’t become a “yes man” in your first date. Agreeing with everything someone thought the entire conversation doesn`t make for good conversation, it just makes for a stale one. Keeping your own opinions and thoughts when conversing with allow for a actual discussion. Never  bring up past relationships or your pay check.

Past relationships encompass a ton of informationthat only needs to be left in the past. Relating any experiences into your first date conversation probably won’t get you a second date. Discussing how much or how little money your make is just in poor taste. Keep your first date enjoyable and entertaining. It just might get you second one.

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10 Ways to Know Your Relationship is in Trouble

November 11, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

When a relationship is good, it is great. Nothing feels better than knowing our relationship is solid and on track. This feeling is so satisfying that when issues pop up it can begin to make you aware that perhaps there is trouble in paradise. Is there a difference between a rough patch and trouble? It can definitely depend on what the tell tale signs of trouble are.

  1. You don’t like who you are anymore. Being with someone should make you feel good about yourself. If you notice that through your relationship you start to dislike who your are , or who your becoming it may be an indicator that your relationship is in trouble. Once you start to notice that your becoming a certain way that is undesirable , you should take a step back to realize why.
  2. Looking forward to seeing each other should be on the top of your priority list.  If your finding yourself under excited to see the person your in a relationship with there can be a problem, your realtionship is in trouble. Wanting to see the person your with whatever and wherever the circumstance.
  3. Bragging rights. When your with a person, talking about about them and  their accomplishments should be on your “want to do” list. If your finding yourself ignoring the opportunity to brag about your partner, even in the most insignificant way there can be a problem.
  4. Interesting. Do you find yourself not feeling the “interested factor” anymore. You should  feel that your partner interests you, and what he/she has to say. If you find yourself wishing that you were in another conversation with someone else there is a problem in your relationship.
  5. Quirky or annoying. If you know your partner has quirks you can overlook them if your in a good place. If your finding the quirks to be no longer quirky and more annoying, there can be trouble in your relationship.
  6. Immediate break up syndrome. If every time you fight, your immediate thought is to break up in order to end your fight, your relationship may be in trouble.
  7. If their gone, they are gone. Having that attitude can definitely hurt your relationship. You should want to keep your partner, not be indifferent.
  8. Being together isn’t a “just because” situation. Being with someone out of lack of something better to do can be devastating.  This is a sure recipe for trouble in your relationship.
  9. Not wishing your “trading up” to a more attractive model will mean your happy with your relationship. If your finding yourself often times attracted to other people it could be your not happy with your current partner.
  10. What is love? Being with someone should make you want more. Want to take your relationship to the next level. If you feel that love is not in your midst, or don’t even want it, there may be trouble in your relationship.

Knowing there is trouble in your relationship, takes reading the signs that occur along the way. Listening to your inner self about happiness, needs and wants in a relationship will tell you if in fact your in trouble in your current one.

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Questions Not to Ask on a First Date

November 10, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

First dates can always be so anxiety ridden it can feel like a mine field. With so much pressure looming over a first date it’s hard to know how to handle it. For even the most outgoing of people it can still be a nerve wracking experience. Conversation usually is the biggest element when your on a first date. Why? Because conversation generally dictates the chemistry level between the twp people. There are so many ways to end your date before it begins with bad conversation that you really need to be aware of what not to say to avoid ruining your first date. Where do you go with your conversation, what do you say, how do you say it and most importantly what don’t you say? Here’s some questions best left avoided when you are on a first date;

How Old Are You?

While you may think there is a reason to know the answer to this question, it isn’t something that should be asked on the firs date. This can be regarded as an offensive question to some, while others wouldn’t find it a problem. On a first date there is no way to know which way your date will view this questions so it is better left unasked.

How Much Money Do You Make?

This question should totally be off limits. Sure, discuss profession, schooling, whatever you like but stay away from money. Not only is it in bad taste, it gives of the “gold digger vibe”. Having a conversation about profession can be interesting and hold allot of interest, it does not have to divulge how much money is made. It quickly can end your date.

So What Happened With Your Last Relationship?

Asking about previous relationships is a sure fire way to end your date, sooner rather than later. It can open what you would call “Pandora’s Box”. You have no way of knowing where your date has been in relationships and if it is at all a touchy subject. Try getting to know someone before you start to ask overly personal questions. It can definitely come of as way to pushy. This conversation is best left alone until the comfort level  of your relationship dictate its.

When Do You Want To Have Kids?

You may as well put your coat right back on, because this date is over. The “kid”question is probably the most invasive question you can ask on a first date. Someone’s position on having children is not dinner conversation, let alone a talk to have on your first date. This is the first date, you want to keep the conversation light and not too deep. This will definitely put pressure on your date, and he will probably never call you for a second date.

Last but not the least, don’t ask if you are looking fat or ugly as it will create tension between you two. Avoid these embarrassing questions during first date to enjoy an evening of pleasure without getting jittery or having butterflies in your stomach.

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When Is It Time to Start Dating After Divorce?

November 9, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

Marriage is one of the hardest relationships to maintain. Not surprisingly when that relationship ends, your left barely with your head above water. Ending your marriage is the end of a chapter in your life which needs to be mourned. Grieving the loss of your marriage is a natural and healthy part of the process to closure. How long you grieve is the question you need to establish.  You may want to give your relationship it’s “dues” but after that  if your not interested in moving on, has it become your own personal hang up?

Let’s Do Some Math

There is no specific formula to calculate the length of your relationship, minus the time that was rocky, equals how long you have to wait before you date. Your relationship ended. Period. The only relevance the length of your marriage has is how much “history” you have to put behind you.  This can be the hurdle that leaves you questioning your loyalty to the relationship that has passed.

Is There Any One Else to Consider

Knowing when to date may have something to do with  if  there are children to think about in this equation. Taking other peoples feelings into consideration can slow down the process of getting “back into the saddle.” This can be an especially difficult situation to navigate if you have to take into account how other people in your life would deal with this new inclusion. Your children shouldn’t dictate the course your life takes, but what is best for them must be paramount in your decisions.

Have You Said Good Bye

It is important to be able to move on only if you taken the time to say good bye. Trying to date without taking the time properly acknowledge your previous relationship will not help you move on in time to date. You can only proceed so far in your dating before your past will catch up with you. It is important to deal with the emotions that come on a daily that will effect any new relationship you may have. Only when you acknowledge your feelings, that may include anger and sadness will you find the closure you need to move on.

What’s It Look Like

Reaching the closure you need will look like  a better you. When you are able to reflect upon your past relationship without bitterness you will know that you are headed for healing. Remember the past for what it was, without placing blame or needing to revisit the worst part of your past you will begin to look ahead. Looking ahead will open you up to meeting new people, experiencing new things, and having a new lease on your life. That is when you will know it is time to start dating after divorce.

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Can Controlling Relationships Work?

November 8, 2010 By Karen Hiser Leave a Comment

Relationships come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes there are couples that you aren’t necessarily sure how the dynamic of their relationship works, but never the less it does. This can be true of a lot of couples you know. But why? Is it because they are opposites, or maybe it is because they are too much the same. Have you observed a relationship where one partner is more controlling that the other? Relationships are always changing. As you build a foundation together, you and your partner may take on different roles. Has this happened in your relationship and now your spouse is controlling? Can that work for a relationship?

There are different way to identify if your in a controlling relationship, and if it works for you. There are of course different levels of control and conversely different levels acceptance. Before you can even begin dealing with a controlling relationship, you first need to know the situation. Is it the sort of relationship where only a few matters are highly controlled (as in, who chooses the date’s destination or who pays for things), or is it the sort where you never see your friends anymore because your loved one is insecure about your spending time with anyone else?

This level of control can work for some people, it can actually make them function better. How you may wonder? Some people prefer to have the decisions taken from them as they can find it to much to bear. The stresses of everyday life can be just to much for one person , so have parts of their life taken over and be “handled” for them, it seems almost a relief. It is from there a definitive line is drawn. To have someone act as a dominate figure in your life, a “care giver” or sorts, can make some people feel safe and comfortable.

Without this comfort they may seem insecure and feel as though they are unable to handle the relationship. This is where a certain amount of control can work in a relationship. There is one reason , and one reason only. This is because you have given control freely to the other person in the relationship. This is a very important piece of the relationship.

That type of control can work for some couples. Initially, the signs of a controlling relationship might resemble clingy behavior. For instance, when a partner starts whining because you came home fifteen minutes late from work, demanding to know why you’re late and not being able to accept that you stopped off at someone else’s office to catch up for a few minutes, you may be heading for trouble.

When you meet resistance over seeing friends (especially if you haven’t seen them in a little while) or find that going to a support group meeting or other personal obligation means that you’ll return home to an argument, there is definitely trouble brewing.

If you are the type of person who likes to have the element of control in your relationship, that should be your call. If the level of control exceeds your comfort level you need to recognize the signs, and deal with it before it gets our of control.

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