Tom Dunlap: Date has finally been picked for long-awaited wedding

We had a taste of nightlife in Chico recently. It rattled some old memories of my college years down there. Day or night, you can’t help but notice that Chico is fueled by younger folks.

Thanks to Chico State University, the youthful footprints of nearly 17,000 full-time students are spread across the entire community. It is the second oldest campus in the California State University system. And, despite its current official title, nearly everyone familiar with the landmark institution still favors the vibrant brevity of “Chico State,” the traditional moniker dating back to 1887 when the city of Chico’s founder, John Bidwell, donated 8 acres for the creation of Chico State Normal School.

Maybe that’s why our daughter, June, has been so captivated by the community since moving there in 1981. Now in her 40s, she is blessed with a younger mind, one that thrives on the pace that is life itself in Chico. As a flight attendant for a major airline, her base is San Francisco International Airport, but she would rather live in her condo on a cul-de-sac in Chico and brave the long commute.

One day in the San Francisco terminal, she met a weary traveler waiting for his flight. If you like popcorn and happy endings, this was the storybook beginning of a love that blossomed fast from that day five years ago. Returning from a visit with his family in Kansas City, Ernie was working his way back to his nursing classes at Fresno State.

Telephone romance lacks a certain spark. By the end of the semester, Ernie was transferring his studies to a nursing program in Chico. Class by class, semester by semester, he has been working his way to his goal as a registered nurse. By working at Enloe Hospital and counting his classroom units, his graduation is finally growing near, his future looming bright.

Daughter June and Ernie have been engaged for two years so it was no surprise when, at a recent gathering to celebrate Ernie’s 41st birthday at The Gooney Bird Bar & Grill in Chico, the giddy lovebirds announced that wedding bells would be ringing in the not-too-distant future. The long-awaited news filled the dining room with joy.

And for those who might recall my reporting on Santa Claus’ visit during this recent Christmas holiday, it should come as no surprise that Little Debbie blessed Ernie with countless chocolate calories at his birthday celebration.

Also, he received a Slap Chop kitchen tool, as advertised on TV. Ernie doesn’t cook worth beans, but he does do comedy. Rumor has it that he may be seen on Facebook being crazy in the kitchen. But don’t ask me for details – I’m just the father of the bride and I’ve never been to Facebook.

Sadly, June and Ernie’s beloved kitty, Pepalee, was at the party in spirit only. On the hearth, a hand-painted river rock brightened their recent loss, thanks to one anonymous Redding artist named Sandi, famous for her stony soft-heartedness.

Outside on the porch, feline neighbor Polly Dactyl grieved for her absent friend.

As the birthday party ended, we blessed the betrothed couple with a “thumbs up” salutation, bolstered in no small part by Polly Dactyl – born with six toes on several of her feet.

Top Dating Tips for Men – How to Date Women

Top Dating Tips

Are you a new member to the dating scene? Are you regular in trying to meet new women? Whatever you might be, you must be eager to know about dating and gathering tips and suggestions that are going to help you when you would be dating. It also happens to so many people that they simply wish to have had met a dating guide who could have offered him some dating tips and dating advices. The case may not be quite different in your case also.

There is a very wrong notion regarding dating or attracting women. Some people in the world think that the good looking people are the original winners are the perfect dating masters. Otherwise there must be some magic formula. My dear friend, let me explain it to you. There is, in fact, no magic formula. Neither the good looking persons are always perfect dating masters. It is all within you.

The women that you want to date are no goddesses or no supernatural beings. They are human beings after all. Behave like a man what you are. If you can successfully carry this out, you are surely going to be a perfect dating master. If you are looking for dating tips that will help you become a dating master just click down the page and you will come across the top dating tips that, if you follow, are sure to make you a successful and tricky dating master.

Tip 1 of top dating tips:

Before you venture upon anything, preparation is something that is a must. If you really have the desire to become a dating master, you must think of the preparation that you ought to take before you start out with dating a woman. Get it sure which part of the day you are free for the dating. You should also think in which part of the day you are most comfortable with general people. Take dating as a part of your daily and very natural routine. There is no reason to take dating as a serious affair.

Tip 2 of top dating tips:

It is true that you never need to be a very attractive and handsome looking person. On the other hand it has to be kept in mind that you should not be bad looking. And, no one on this planet is bad looking. What you are asked to do is to take care of your health so that you do not look ugly. Visit the gym regularly. Have the stylish hair cut and get into the right pairs of clothing. All of these things would reflect what kind of care you take of yourself. You may look mad or an extremely careless person. But you can say, “There’s a method in my madness.” They cannot but believe you.

Tip 3 of top dating tips:

Before you begin with dating women, have your homework first. What you need moist is the familiarity with the situation in which you are going to date a woman. You should also prepare yourself for a number of situations for you never know what kid of situations you are going to face while dating a particular woman or proposing a woman for dating. If have the ideas about the situations from an earlier time, it would be quite easier for you to cope up with the situation when it really arrives.

Tip 4 of top dating tips:

This is going to be one of the most important and top dating tips. Give it a deep thought before you start dating women. The question arises what you will give the thought to. Have a clear conception about how long you want to proceed with the relationship with the woman whom you are dating. Decisions will of course be different if you are going to marry within a short period of time.

Tip 5 of top dating tips:

Have confidence. There is no better tip for you to become a dating master. If you have it you are better than anybody. If you are without it, none can help you. Try to gain confidence in each and every action of yours. You can also gain confidence out of your thinking process. Have a positive thinking in your mind.

Tip 6 of top dating tips:

Enjoy dating as it is. Pay attention to your desires or some deeper intentions. At the same time, you have got to keep in mind the fact that the first and foremost step of dating women is to be sociable and familiar with them. Do that perfectly before everything, and you will fid that women themselves are desirous of dating you.

Tip 7 of top dating tips:

Take care that you are giving proper time to the woman you are dating. Even if it happens that you are dating a dozen of women at a time, without letting anyone know about your dating with the others, your body language should make it clear that you are too interested in her and her only.

Tip 8 of top dating tips:

Your interaction with the women should never reflect the fact that you are always available for the woman. Do not be humble for making out or going to the bed in the initial stages. The more you become attractive to the women, they more they will feel going to bed with you. It never means that you turn your face from sex in such a manner that women start avoiding you supposing that you are sexually frustrated and frustrating as well.