The Right Way to Propose

Haven’t we all watched a romantic comedy that entails a grand  proposal and thought, ” Gee I wish I had that..” Of course  we  have and really that isn’t an unrealistic expectation. A proposal sets the tone for the engagement followed by the wedding of your dreams. A relationship is a time of courting. Call it old fashion, but this should be the time you get to know one another.  Knowing you want to propose should lay the ground work to the fashion in which you will propose.

Finding someone special enough to want to spend your life with should be a special event. Every aspect of the entire proposal, engagement and wedding will be remembered throughout the entire relationship. Why not start it off with a bang?  Not every proposal needs flash, bling or grandeur. Romance people, romance. This is the key element. Once the proposal has happened, you will  be telling and retelling the story of how it happened well past your wedding. So let’s make sure it’s a story worth telling.

Firstly, let’s set the stage for this event. Yes, a proposal is an event! Think of a place that holds some significant meaning to your relationship.  Think romance. Look for places such as the spot where you said “I love you”, or perhaps where you first met. Something as simple and thoughtful as your favourite bistro or location of your first date. A good choice would be to encompass your partners favourite activity or food. There are endless possibilities.

Second, what ever will you say? Never underestimate the power of the written word. The right combination of words will be remembered for a lifetime. Try to incorporate the essence of your relationship into your proposal. This may sound difficult at first, but once you put pen to paper it will flow. Take a moment to jot down any word that comes to mind when you think of your relationship. Just brainstorm. This is the most effective way to get an idea on where to begin. Once you have a dozen words or so that you think define your relationship begin to put them into sentences. Having your proposal rehearsed a little won’t hurt. For the shy ones out there, perhaps having your proposal on a card, a letter or even a message in a bottle would better suit.

Lastly, timing is everything. The right momemt will seal the deal. If you are at all anxious, save your special moment for a time when you will feel more at ease. Likely your engagment will last a year or so, enough time to plan your wedding so you want to remain  in good standing! This can happen with the right proposal, allowing it to be smooth sailing until your wedding day. A proposal story that is told should always leave you with a warm heart and smile.  Something as simple as rose petal trail to the chair you were sitting in when you first met, with simply the words “I can’t live without you, marry me” written on a place card may be all it takes.

Be genuine, don’t research it like you would an assignment. Think  of how you would want to be told that you are someones forever and go from there.

Summer Engagement-Ideas for Proposing

The sun is shining, the grass is green and skies are blue. Scents of fresh cut grass, newly blossomed flowers and fresh water run through the air. The time is now. Why not have a summer engagement? Propose to the love of your life at one of the most beautiful times of the year. If you aspire to tradition, there are many traditional ways to propose to ensure you have a lovely summer engagement. Set the stage for a beautiful wedding  by having a summer engagement.

Is your intended a movie buff? Many towns offer outside theater or classic films set to run on a projector in a park. Couples flock to enjoy a beautiful night under the stars with their love. Why not pack up a bottle of wine, a picnic basket and blanket to venture out? Once settled in you could take the opportunity during a classic black and white film to express your desire to want to share your lives together. This proposal is  both intimate and thoughtful. It says you know your intended and you have put thought into the right way to ask her for her hand in marriage.

Is your intended a thrill seeker? Up up and away. A gorgeous sunset is always romantic, but what about seeing it from a hot air balloon? A drink of champagne, the right words, and view that cannot be ignored should make turn this proposal into a summer engagement.Sunsets can be seen from a dock on lake and be just a romantic if your intended is more comfortable on the ground. It’s all about how well you know the person you going to propose too.

For the sport fanatic, a summer engagement can occur because of a proposal on a jumbo tron . For a little more of a twist on that type of proposal, how about going to a game and slipping a note to the umpire at first base? It can then be announced at the pitchers mound!  If the game you are at is at a professional level, you may even be able to entice the entertainment scheduled to assist you .Some  may wish for a more subtle approach, making the proposal slightly more intimate.

Is your intended a  lover of nature? Why not create a nature hike in which you hike to a secluded area, pre decorated where you pledge your love. Perhaps a lovely clam bake in the sand with a nice glass of wine could set the stage for a more intimate summer engagement.

Nature provides a lovely backdrop for a proposal done in the summer time. It also provides the climate should you wish to be outdoors. The “right” venue isn’t a place you can locate and book. Your proposal should be specific to your relationship. Provide deep meaning and connection to the time you have spent together.  Enjoying a summer engagements allows many more opportunities to celebrate outdoors. It is a time of beauty , growth, and happiness. So should your proposal be, to make the wedding of your dreams.