Haven’t we all watched a romantic comedy that entails a grand proposal and thought, ” Gee I wish I had that..” Of course we have and really that isn’t an unrealistic expectation. A proposal sets the tone for the engagement followed by the wedding of your dreams. A relationship is a time of courting. Call it old fashion, but this should be the time you get to know one another. Knowing you want to propose should lay the ground work to the fashion in which you will propose.
Finding someone special enough to want to spend your life with should be a special event. Every aspect of the entire proposal, engagement and wedding will be remembered throughout the entire relationship. Why not start it off with a bang? Not every proposal needs flash, bling or grandeur. Romance people, romance. This is the key element. Once the proposal has happened, you will be telling and retelling the story of how it happened well past your wedding. So let’s make sure it’s a story worth telling.
Firstly, let’s set the stage for this event. Yes, a proposal is an event! Think of a place that holds some significant meaning to your relationship. Think romance. Look for places such as the spot where you said “I love you”, or perhaps where you first met. Something as simple and thoughtful as your favourite bistro or location of your first date. A good choice would be to encompass your partners favourite activity or food. There are endless possibilities.
Second, what ever will you say? Never underestimate the power of the written word. The right combination of words will be remembered for a lifetime. Try to incorporate the essence of your relationship into your proposal. This may sound difficult at first, but once you put pen to paper it will flow. Take a moment to jot down any word that comes to mind when you think of your relationship. Just brainstorm. This is the most effective way to get an idea on where to begin. Once you have a dozen words or so that you think define your relationship begin to put them into sentences. Having your proposal rehearsed a little won’t hurt. For the shy ones out there, perhaps having your proposal on a card, a letter or even a message in a bottle would better suit.
Lastly, timing is everything. The right momemt will seal the deal. If you are at all anxious, save your special moment for a time when you will feel more at ease. Likely your engagment will last a year or so, enough time to plan your wedding so you want to remain in good standing! This can happen with the right proposal, allowing it to be smooth sailing until your wedding day. A proposal story that is told should always leave you with a warm heart and smile. Something as simple as rose petal trail to the chair you were sitting in when you first met, with simply the words “I can’t live without you, marry me” written on a place card may be all it takes.
Be genuine, don’t research it like you would an assignment. Think of how you would want to be told that you are someones forever and go from there.
