So have you finally met that guy who takes your breath away with his mere presence? Are having trouble getting him to notice you? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to have a legitimate relationship with him? If you are serious about want to get with a guy, then the best technique for you to use is playing hard to get. Women have been using this technique for decades and it is still as effective today as it was back then. Keep reading to how to play hard to get and why it is so effective.
Understanding that playing hard to get is not mean
If you are a nice girl by nature, then you might be a little hesitant about playing hard to get. It might come off as either mean or dishonest to you, but you need to get those notions out of your head. Playing hard to get is not mean. If it were mean then why would men love it when girls give them a little challenge? Guys don’t want girls who are going to faint just at the sound of their voice. They want to exercise their social skills to try to dazzle a girl who seems to have no interest.
Play hard to get
There is three parts to playing hard to get. First, he should never know what is going on in your head. Nothing is more frustrating or exciting to a guy then when he has no clue what so ever how a girl feels about him. Second is that you show just enough interest for him to keep coming back, but not enough for him to know how much you truly like him. Men love a challenge, and their favorite challenge of all is trying to win the heart of a girl. The harder he has to work to get you, the more he will appreciate you when you finally give in. The finally step to playing hard to get is giving him mixed signals. Nothing will drive him more insane than a girl who seems totally interest one day and does not give a flip the next day.
Work on your timing
Timing is very important when you are playing hard to get. If you wait too long, he might lose interest and decide to pursue someone who is not so much of a hassle. If you give in to early then he will not get to fully appreciate your worth. You have to decide when is the perfect time to stop playing mind games with him and make the relationship more serious.
Keep him clueless
As mentioned before, keeping him clueless is a big part of playing hard to get. Since he has no idea how you feel about him, he will actually have to go out on a limb if he wants to win you. If he is willing to go through to that extent, then you can be sure that playing hard to get was a complete success. Do not let him know what you are thinking, and it will give you the perfect opportunity to get into his mind and see what he is thinking.
