I hаνе recently became engaged fοr thе second time tο thе same іnсrеdіblе man i hаνе bееn wіth fοr a very long time аnd i аm over thе moon. I absolutely lіkе hіm wіth аll mу heart. I јυѕt hаνе a few qυеѕtіοnѕ, Wе whеrе due tο gеt married thе first time back іn December 07′ аnd i always hаd mу heart οn getting married аt christmas time ѕіnсе i wаѕ small аnd mу partner ѕаіd wе wіll dο anything thаt wіll mаkе mе рlеаѕеd. Dο уου rесkοn іt wουld bе stupid setting thе date fοr thе exact same date аѕ last time? аnd іf wе сhοοѕе οn thе wedding thіѕ christmas, whеn ѕhουld wе ѕtаrt аll thе рlοttіng? Thanks alot
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I reckon that’s terrible juju to plot it for the same date as last time since it fell through. and the holidays are so hectic and busy for people, and cost a lot of money. I bet a lot of people already have other plans to travel to be with their family, and set aside money for holiday gifts so they won’t be able to also pay to go to your wedding.
Honestly I don’t reckon it’s honest to have a wedding at Christmas time, reckon of how stressing that is for other people as well. They are spending so much money around that time and now they have to spend money to go to your wedding. I would push the date and have it for late February or early March.
Start plotting now. Weddings are huge events and need to be thoroughly plotted out. Also I don’t reckon it’d be a very excellent thought to have the new wedding on the same day as the your first. It can still be in December, just not the 7th. Hope this helped.
If you are plotting a huge wedding maybe Christmas isn’t the best time since many people are busy, out of town or have their own traditions that day. Either way, start your plotting asap…there are a lot of things to deal with and you might as well take your time to make it the way you want it. Excellent luck and Congratulations!
a lot of people will be busy around christmas and it will be impossible to book a band. it usually takes a excellent whole year to plot for a larger wedding but it depends on the planner. the date being the same is really fine its just the timing of the year that would be hard/ weird.
hope this helps!
i know you didn’t question this, but i got married right around Christmas and my niece who was married on dec 4 urged me to wait a while, but i was dead set on it. now i know where she was coming from. you will NEVER have money to do anything for your anniversary. everyone is broke at christmas time, and in all honesty, there isn’t alot of fun stuff to do for your anniversary in december. i mean there is no going to the lake or ocean or getting a hotel with a pool. it’s too cold – unless you have alot of money and can go somewhere warm – or unless you are blessed enough to live in a tropical climate. but…
if you insist on doing it in december, you should certainly start now. also check out wedding magazines they have timetables in them, and you can check the websites i’ve listed below. oh and don’t let superstition into your marriage. there is nothing incorrect with having the wedding on the original date. congratulations!
I reckon a Christmas wedding could be very nice. After all, with enough notice (so send out the save the date cards NOW) your family can all plot to be in town for the holiday and the wedding. You will probably be able to save some money on decorations as well, since many churches decorate for Christmas anyway, so you would need to provide less. I would start plotting immediately, so you have enough time to do everything.
i reckon that you should have your wedding as close to your original date as possible. if you are plotting a saturday wedding the dates would be december 5th 12th 19th 26th so i say pick one and get started girl!
the romance and charm of the christmas season lends itself perfectly to weddings, adding even more beauty to an already special day.
congrats on your engagement and i wish you the most pleased of weddings!
i’m looking forward to seeing your wedding questions popping up here when you are looking for support or thoughts!
I wouldn’t use the same date. But there is nothing incorrect with having it in Dec. again. But for this year. you had better get moving.
Start plotting now. I know the other peoples’ concerns about people going out of town, shopping and all that other stuff, but that’s usually closer to Christmas time anyway. It’s your wedding and your hubby-to-be says you can have whatever you like so go for it. If you have right friends, they will show up. Besides, they have a WHOLE month to shop for Christmas stuff…your wedding will be for a few hours on ONE DAY. Well unless you plot on having it longer…
I see what the one girl was saying about not having money on your anniversary and stuff…Do what you want, but keep that in mind at the same time.
Congrats though!
I reckon you should choose a new date, since there might be lingering emotions from the last date. I would also choose a date not the weekend before or after Christmas if money is an issue. Prices go sky high for events around this time. Excellent luck and Congratulations.
well i am doing something similar. my wedding is the 12 of december and it’s a christmas theme wedding.
considering it’s the same man you were going to marry the first time i see no problem with it being the same day as it was supposed to be.
as to plotting.. i would get going now! i have been plotting mine since last december and i am now starting to run into people are not available and having a hard time finding vendors that will work in December or that aren’t already booked for other weddings.
Don’t get married on Christmas. Nobody wants to travel during the holidays except to see family. Not to mention its expensive. Why don’t you get married in EARLY December?
As far as plotting goes, that would depend on how huge or small of a wedding you’ll be having.