Thе ancient joke іѕ: “Whу іѕ thе bride smiling οn hеr wedding day?” And thе punch line іѕ, “Bесаυѕе ѕhе knows ѕhе′s given hеr last b—j–b!”
Guys? Gals? Whаt’s уουr take οn thіѕ ancient saw? Iѕ іt rіght fοr thе mοѕt раrt? (wе аll know ‘everyone іѕ different’ – bυt thеrе аrе trends аnd generalizations thаt саn bе mаdе)
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I didn’t give bj’s BEFORE the wedding so guess this doesn’t apply to me.
Yes, depends on the gal some keep going for 3yr, or 10yr, but after a while they just don’t need it anymore.
That why there are so many hookers out there, they are discrete.
Not right! I give a blow job every day!
getting comfortable in the relationships sets in and doing the things that “impressed” the man before doesnt seem so necessary anymore
or at least thats my take on it
Oh give me a break! That isn’t right for all women that get married. Women don’t stop doing certain things after the wedding…not anymore then men …..Some men stop eating right….don’t get the exercise they need and place on weight.
I don’t know if that is right or not but I don’t intend to give one before my wedding.
i dont know where you got that info from!!!
Not right for me, but I guess it depends on the woman.
well i was giving my hubby bjs b4 the wedding and havent stopped so i dont reckon its right.
i mean i am sure some women do stop doing things but personally i dont. i am not a fake ad. what you see is what you get.
i don’t like bj’s; perhaps that’s why i’m not married yet lol
seriously after a few years sex is not so exciting; but i do know one thing women do a lot more after marriage: nagging!
from a woman’s POV I can say that it is not always right. Maybe it it TMI, but for me, convelesing after giving birth, I still want to keep my man pleased and satisfied. Not to mention, some women really delight in doing this for their husbands.
I started after we got married and til this day we both delight in them. Probably he does more then I do. ;o)
well, in my opinion, that is not right. the relationship is what you make it as a couple. if you make the effort to keep it exciting together, you’ll probably like each other forever.
i would say its not right…
Not in my marriage – since getting married, I am more open and willing to try new things and he likes it. Before marriage, I was more reserved.
But I have friends and relatives that certainly relate to that “ancient saw” … even follow it completely! Might be why they have marriage troubles and I don’t. LOL
Seriously – If you did it before marriage, don’t stop just because you are married. What ever you did to Get that person’s attention, you need to continue doing it so you can Keep their attention.
I am far more intimate and sensual since getting married, and I go out of my way to please my man … and my “rewards” (for those of you who reckon that way) have been that I have a man who goes out of his way to pleasure me completely and continually. He sweetly seduces me, or aggressively “attacks” me – either way, he makes sure to pleasure me. And you can be sure I return the favor and seduce or attack him as well.
Our intimate relationship has increased 10-fold over the years … and while aging may slow us down later on, for now it can only get better.
Keep your marriage alive and spicy, not just in the bedroom, but in every aspect. Hugs, kisses, like notes, phone calls, text messages, whatever works. Do small things when they least expect it – they’ll appreciate that you were thinking about them, and return the favor when you least expect it.
Best Wishes.
I really started giving my husband BlowJobs AFTER the wedding.
Before we got married we dated for 2 years, he got like 3 blowjobs. Now that we’re married he gets them on a regular basis.
Don’t know why it worked out like that. I guess because I feel more in like with him now or something, now that we’re married.
It’s not a question of marriage! You mustn’t make your woman feel that she “has to do it”, make her “want to do it”. Don’t push and shove her head each time you feel like it. If you have a pause for a couple of times when you have sex, she will start herself because it will make her curious why you don’t want it as much as you did before. It’s psychology you know.
not right for me i like givin it to my guy
It’s all too right.
Now, the women who respond here on Yahoo pretty much all claim to be insatiable nymphos, but real women pretty much mis-represent how active they are sexually before marriage, then once married the *real* much much much slower sex drive comes out.
Within 5 years, you’ll be lucky to be getting any once a month.
OMG No. It’s not right of every married woman . Some thing is certainly incorrect if the woman stops doing certain things immediately after the wedding . I would reckon after a decade or two things might get a small dull and you have to try new things to spice up your like life.
Yes. Just like men stop opening doors and taking us out to dinner. Why should we make the effort when you don’t anymore.
No, it’s not right.
I’m a woman and it’s right! I use to fix his plate, massage his back after a long day, have dinner waiting for him. I even gave him special attention w/o him even asking me for it. Now he say that I don’t even do half the stuff I used to do. To me, if you feel that that person is the ideal woman or man to be with for the rest of your life, you’ll do whatever it takes to keep that person at the point in time. My grandmother has an ancient saying…”Whatever it took to get that man, It will take to keep that man.” Just words to remember …..
snmg, I like what your grandmother said. “Whatever it took to get that man, it will take to keep that man (pleased)”. My wife swallowed for me all the time before we got married. She seemed to really like it but she stopped immediately after the wedding. I still get bj’s but only until a few seconds before I end. Suddenly she pulls her head away and finishes with her hand. It is the most frustrating thing ever. Partially because it’s physically less satisfying. Mostly because my mind takes control durning my end. As I am physically have an O, I’m silently overwhemed with the wondering why she will only use her hand at the end now. We’ve discussed it a few times but it seems pointless. Six years have passed now. I don’t know if she will ever do it again. It’s only honest to tell your guy up front that you don’t like to do it. I had no thought that she would stop doing that as soon as we got married. I used to laugh at the ancient joke about “Why is the bride smiling?”. I never even considered that it is right for some couples. I find myself surfing too many websites looking for advice on how to get her to do it again. Any thoughts you could share with me? I eat lots of fruit. I buy her flowers. I take her to do dinner. I tell her I like her and mean it. I do everything I can to please her. We’re both like each other and live otherwise pleased lives. What can I do? Guys talk too. I have one buddy who has this same tale. I have a few other buddies who have no thought what I’m talking about. Their wives haven’t stopped doing it. How can I get my wife to want to do it again?