Well mу fiance іѕ getting I guess annoyed bесаυѕе I аm ‘unique’. I wanted a pink sapphire аѕ mу engagement ring bесаυѕе I rесkοn diamonds аrе a hυgе waste οf money аrе аrе dυll bесаυѕе EVERYBODY hаѕ diamonds, anyone саn bυу a diamond bυt іt takes a daring person tο brеаk thе mold аnd gеt a colored gemstone ring. Alѕο, I tοld hіm I wanted tο hаνе a red wedding dress аnd hе wаѕ nearly appalled! Hе even tried tο tеll mе red means death іn hіѕ culture (whісh іѕ a load οf sh*t bесаυѕе I researched іt). Hе ѕаіd “whу dο уου ALWAYS hаνе tο bе different!?” wouldn’t уου rаthеr bе wіth someone whο hаѕ thеіr οwn mind аnd doesn’t јυѕt follow thе trend? Iѕ being different really thаt tеrrіblе!?
Whаt dοеѕ mу fiance аnd I being different hаνе tο dο wіth hοw well wе gο together? Whу wουld I want someone whο іѕ јυѕt lіkе mе, thаt sounds lіkе thе mοѕt dυll marriage еνеr. I lіkе thаt hе hаѕ different thουghtѕ thаn I dο. I аm јυѕt wondering іf іt іѕ really ѕο tеrrіblе thаt I don’t lіkе tο follow whаt society sees аѕ rіght.
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you really don’t sound all that different to me
unique isn’t terrible, but maybe you delivered it in a way that took him aback – continue communicating and make a compromise -
You are marrying the incorrect guy, can’t you see that? You have nothing in common. He is traditional and you are not. Excellent luck with this marriage!
Join the freak club, I have a sapphire as my wedding band. LOL there is nothing incorrect with being different. I wore Converse with skulls on them under my wedding dress, my mom was not pleased, but everyone else liked them and I was comfortable so I didn’t care! We are all individuals, I say go for what makes you pleased!
I don’t reckon its a terrible thing that you want to be unique. I saw go with what you want. =]
Hey, there’s nothing incorrect with being different. The problem in your relationship is that he doesn’t like it.
Either you’ll need to “tone it down” a bit and conform enough to make him comfortable with things he feels strongly about or he’s going to start seeing you as a source of embarrassment. This could lead to long term problems – so be careful how far you push things.
…or try to find someone that’s more unconventional and more like you.
Your ring is normal. A lot of people don’t like diamonds. As far as the dress, it sounds like your fiance wants a traditional wedding. Sit down with him and have a talk where you can each have what you like in the wedding. A red dress is a small out there but your guests will never forget your wedding or talking about it.
no its a excellent thing some ppl like tradition though
well i don’t know what culture he comes from but he needs to relax. You guys can compromise. Depending on his heritage he may be more worried about you upsetting his parents. Maybe you can find a wedding dress that reflects his background. A lot of these white wedding dresses are just dull compared to others from around the world. I personally would like one like in the bollywood movies. Anyways Unique terrible? no
I like that my GF is different, she is weird and quarky and i like her for every single bit of it!!! (im also weird and we are both very crazy, i guess thats why it works very well)
But no i would like a very nontraditional wedding like you said, i would wear a blue suit (I LOVE BLUE
) it would be really cool! Its the weird and different things that makes the world keep turning, if you were just like everyone else he could marry anyone and it would be the same, SO BE DIFFERENT!!! Its awesome! 
tell him to grow some balls and be less shy (thats his issue, he thinks friends and family will not approve of such outrages style wedding).
Well, I reckon this is a sign that you should hold off on getting married. Opposites attract, but you two are MORE opposite than you know. Really, it should be up to the bride (you) what you wear, as you already well know. He’s not even supposed to know, really or see the dress before the day. As for different cultures, unless you’re having a religious ceremony -then why does it matter? Unless his mother is going to have a heartattack right there when you walk down the aisle and then I’d reconsider.
No, I reckon being unique and wanting to be different is fantastic. I come from a family where my sister and I are both very unique, but, my mother COPIES everything we do…kinda scary. Being unique got me my job and has given me the edge my whole life. Especially since I’m a musician.
It’s not terrible, but you also have to consider his feelings. I reckon a colored gem stone is fantastic. Maybe look at compromising on the dress, afterall you only get married once and don’t want to be known as the bride who looked like a bridesmaid on the huge day. I don’t reckon you have to have the traditional white, keep your options open, maybe meet in the middle and go for a blush colored gown.
White symbolizes purity in the US and death in China. Red is a well loved wedding color in China and a symbol of seduction, romance, and sometimes death/danger in the US. Be unique but remember that you also need to make some compromises as you are entering into marriage. Why not surprise him and wear a white dress with all of the red details you want. I like the ring thought. I personally like smokey quarts, citrine, and turquoise diamonds not all in one ring but I do like them
I like the dip dye look but you can also try a red bodice with white skirt. Be creative with the color. If you are stuck on red show him some classy photos of dresses you like(just not the one you want) and he will hopefully feel better about it.
http://s240.photobucket.com/albums/ff216/blushevents/?action=view¤t=RedWeddingDressbyOneLovePhoto.jpg
Being unique can be a excellent thing or a terrible thing.
Weddings tend to be a very traditional event. You don’t want to be so unique that you offend people. I reckon a red wedding dress would offend some people, including your fiance apparently. It’s his wedding too remember.
It’s not terrible to be different, but it can be terrible if your fiancé doesn’t know you. Both my husband and I are “different”, and it works for us. You don’t want someone “just like you”, but you do want someone who can know and respect your individuality. Sounds to me like your fiancé doesn’t.